Dear Abby gives advice to a woman who witnesses "disturbing" and "erratic" behavior from her boyfriend's 27-year-old son.

The challenge is the erratic and angry behavior of his 27-year-old son, “Adam,” who lives in the building my boyfriend owns and resides in. Adam was previously diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Drew now says the diagnosis was inaccurate, and Adam is learning how to deal with his emotions without heavy medication.

"The co-dependence and enabling in this father-son relationship prevents any chance of Adam attaining an independent life."

After a lonely post-divorce decade, I have found a loving man whom I’ll call “Drew.” We share many of the same interests and values and are enjoying this second chance at love and romance. We spend time at each other’s homes,

The challenge is the erratic and angry behavior of his 27-year-old son, “Adam,” who lives in the building my boyfriend owns and resides in. Adam was previously diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Drew now says the diagnosis was inaccurate,

I’m not sure I can manage a future with him if his son comes as a package deal. Should I stay or should I go? DEAR SEES WRITING: Face it — Drew’s mentally challenged son is part of a package deal. Your boyfriend has no intention of changing the dynamic between him and Adam because,